Relationships

Relationship stuff | Relationship boosters | Long distance and on-line relationships | Lesbian, gay, bi, trans, or questioning | Culture, race, religion, and family | Nonconsensual relationships | Talking with parents | Friendship | Roommate rumblings | Friends or lovers | Miscellaneous

	Relationship stuff
		Flirting
		Hey baby, got any good pick-up lines? How do I let someone know s/he's special? Flirting
		Finding a partner
		I want a husband AND a wife (polyamory) Sober — and looking for a date who understands Will I ever find a gay partner? Dumped cuz I'm a virgin Hey baby, got any good pick-up lines? Younger man hot for senior citizens Asking someone to the prom, or something else Should I cash in on hot banker? Italian ice breakers Beautiful on the outside, but no boyfriend Asking someone about their sexuality Where to meet new people over the summer If he likes me, why won't he call? Woman wants to initiate date Does she like me? Finding a partner Compatibility vs. fun Brother gets all the girls Shy grad student Need help to start dating Lonely foreign grad student Who to date? The looker or the bookworm? Grads meeting grads? First year — No boyfriend? Looking for Mr./Ms. Right Graduate students meet graduate students?
		Relating and communicating
		I want a husband AND a wife (polyamory) My (boy)friend was raped Transgender partner — how can I provide support? I'm a jealous boyfriend and I want to change My friend sleeps around — I'm worried Love shack! Time to move in together? Too much time with boyfriend! Nice names for naughty bits Asking for space: Was it a mistake? An age-old problem: How old is too old? Dealing with jealousy in a relationship I don't care if I cum, but he does Smarter than my boyfriend... Fighting over money Long-distance and lacking communication My boyfriend went to a strip club... Dumped cuz I'm a virgin My boyfriend likes to wear women's underwear Boyfriend’s bladder a bummer in the bedroom We love each other, but we fight all the time... Who brings the contraception: Men or women? Told him my true feelings and now it's truly awkward I go down on her; why won't she do the same for me? Should I stop touching her breasts? I'm intimidated by my incredibly intelligent partner My partner feels more strongly about me than I do about him History lesson — how do I ask about my partner's past? The girlfriend I love cheated on me and regrets it — what should I do? "Faking it" for years wants to come clean I'm ready to commit for life to my girlfriend, but she's the only person with whom I've had sex Who's Dale, and why are you asking for him in your sleep? My girlfriend doesn't want me to wear a condom... but I do Tired of oral sex - Should we move onto intercourse? Talk more dirty to me! She dreams about ex — should I lose sleep over it? Can our relationship survive summer break if we haven't had sex yet? Where do guys like to be touched? Intimate ways to ask partner to make love Loving confusion — is it okay to love same sex friends... and say so? What should I do after sex? Boyfriend sits down when he urinates Girlfriend gets scared every time I say, ''I love you'' "True love" — could it be true? Boyfriend watches TV when we have sex Afraid that boyfriend will drink, cheat, and forget Ain't got the giggles from crazy sex jiggles Boyfriend is always late and I'm frustrated Healthy vs. unhealthy relationships Gay, a tease, or just unavailable? Should I tell my partner I was raped when I was a virgin? Stay with boyfriend or move on to new relationship? I can't wait till wedding night for sex Confused in love Lack of, and lackluster, lovemaking Away at college -- no letters from boyfriend Why doesn't he appreciate me? Selfish or uneducated lover? Please hold while I masturbate Did she "fool around"? My husband goes to strip joints Anxious? In love? In love, but not in lust Girlfriend won't swallow Would my boyfriend be able to tell if I had an abortion? "Reading" my date Husband crossdresses Deciding to devirginize Monogamous couple: Stop using condoms? Does my boyfriend fantasize during sex? Can't make a commitment Afraid to have sex? Girlfriend moving in, she's allergic to my cat Ready for intercourse — BF not Boyfriend "using" girlie magazines Marriage at a lull? Boyfriend said "I love you" to another woman Boyfriend says not enough sex happening! Girlfriend wants more? Demanding boyfriend from home? Dinner = sex?
		Moving on
		Asking for space: Was it a mistake? How soon can I date after a break-up? In love, cut off, what now? Breaking up can be hard to do Ex-girlfriend dumps me for my best friend Should I stay or should I go? Love without harmony To be or not to be... single? Wait to date again? Don't love him anymore? Relationship ended and left with warts Tell my ex I'm pregnant by him? Ex-boyfriend wants me back!?
	I don't want a relationship, okay?
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	Relationship boosters
	Boyfriend says no to role-playing Cheap, romantic gift ideas Happy Anniversary ideas Lack of, and lackluster, lovemaking Creative ideas for a long-distance Valentine's Day Relationship rev-up Sexy role-plays Relationships wane after initial passion Spice up sex life? Marriage at a lull?
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	Long distance and on-line relationships
	Long-distance and lacking communication Relationship becomes a long distance one Away at college -- no letters from boyfriend Looking for love online Please hold while I masturbate The up side of a long distance relationship Long distance relationships Another long distance relationship Long distance relationship — solo pastimes while we're apart?
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	Lesbian, gay, bi, trans, or questioning
		Questioning sexuality
		Bad experiences with men = Lesbian? Bi, gay, pan-sexual: What do I call myself? Lesbian questioning if she's bisexual Gay, a tease, or just unavailable? How do I know if my girlfriend is a lesbian? Am I bisexual or bicurious? Feeling guilty about "gay thoughts" Should I explore my sexuality? Am I gay?... The next generation How do I know if I'm gay? Bisexual to straight = Black hole? Homosexual? Gay, but afraid to say it Interested in lesbian sex Bisexual?
		Coming out
		My parents don't believe I'm bi! I'm bi and interested in my friend Come out to girlfriend about boy-crush? How can I tell my religious parents that I'm a lesbian without them disowning me? Man trapped in woman's body: Coming out of the transgender closet Stereotypical lesbian? Coming out to Mom
		Homophobia
		Worried about gay-bashing Excellent site, but could you take out the gay stuff? 'Dear Matt': Reflections on the death of Matthew Shepard I thought she was a woman: My real-life crying game Living room littered with roommate's rubbers Help — my roommate's a lesbian! Rumor control — Is s/he gay?
		Life issues and resources
		Will I ever find a gay partner? They don't believe that I'm gay! Gay and president? Gay student from China wonders about his new life in New York Worried about gay-bashing The fake straight dude Man trapped in woman's body: Coming out of the transgender closet Excellent site, but could you take out the gay stuff? Lonely lesbian wants to be less lonely Bisexual to straight = Black hole? Bisexuals on campus Rumor control — Is s/he gay?
		Relating
		I want a husband AND a wife (polyamory) Transgender partner — how can I provide support? Does my bisexual friend "like" me? In love with my best friend, but he's gay They don't believe that I'm gay! What does it mean to be intersexed, and how common is it? Gay student from China wonders about his new life in New York The fake straight dude Asking someone about their sexuality How do I know if my girlfriend is a lesbian? Stereotypical lesbian? Woman on woman oral sex: Is it better to give than to receive? Help — my roommate's a lesbian! Guy in love with my male professor From sharing closet space to coming out of the closet Rumor control — Is s/he gay?
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	Culture, race, religion, and family
	My race, my dreams Family meets faith Change of faith: What if my religious parents find out? Bored with white friends How can I tell my religious parents that I'm a lesbian without them disowning me? Teased for being taller than boyfriend Why do nice guys always finish last? Troubled by attraction to tall women Catholic and atheist consider marriage Am I a dork for not being a party animal? Parents don't approve of interracial relationship ''A'' is for affair with professor? Sex talk -- Do similar discussions go on in women's lounges and men's locker rooms? Should a younger man have sex with an older woman? Too short to date? Interfaith couple Only attracted to Asian women
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	Nonconsensual relationships
	My (boy)friend was raped Forgiving myself after being sexually abused Bad experiences with men = Lesbian? Sex offender... forever? Was I raped? Rape aggression defense (R.A.D.) or other self-defense classes - Are they available at Columbia? I'm sure I was drunk, but I'm not sure if I had sex Worried about gay-bashing What about emotional abuse? My boyfriend hits me: Should I go back to him? Help me stop stalking my ex and his new partner Healthy vs. unhealthy relationships Should I tell my partner I was raped when I was a virgin? Older guy went too far Abusive girlfriend Fears Boyfriend May Become Abusive Rape survivor needs help with intimate relationships Former abusive relationship Statutory rape? Teasing, poking, prodding — abusive? Cruising on the commute Exhibitionism/Exposing self Men pressured to have sex Sex with four friends — Mutual? Girlfriend broke it off — am I stalking? Male rape possible? Sister in battered relationship Dinner = sex?
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	Talking with parents
	Love shack! Time to move in together? An age-old problem: How old is too old? Change of faith: What if my religious parents find out? My dad's cheating on my mom... How can I tell my religious parents that I'm a lesbian without them disowning me? I'm afraid to tell my mom, "I'm pregnant" Parents find porn in the boys' room Parents don't approve of interracial relationship Need to see a doctor, but I don't want my parents to know I've had sex Can't please dad Telling mom about my boyfriend and our birth control How do I tell my parents I'm pregnant? Coming out to Mom Curfew on break — is my mom joking?!
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	Friendship
	My friend sleeps around — I'm worried My friends keep dumping their problems on me! Off to college and losing touch with friends Told him my true feelings and now it's truly awkward Commuter student blues In love with my best friend, but he's gay Loving confusion — is it okay to love same sex friends... and say so? Model friend has huge ego Having older friends — weird? Teased for being taller than boyfriend What can I buy my good male friend? Got boyfriend and great family — But no friends Practice sex with best friend "Old" undergraduate Shy grad student Friends for first year guy? Graduate students meet graduate students?
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	Roommate rumblings
	Concerned over co-ed bathrooms I don't want to sexile my new roommate How to tell a nosy roommate to step off No one cares about drunken, messy hallmates, or do they? Attractive man wants to set limits Living room littered with roommate's rubbers Family feuds over furnace Help — my roommate's a lesbian! Floormate leads reckless life Roommate with B.O.? From sharing closet space to coming out of the closet
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	Friends or lovers
	I don't want a relationship, okay? Friends with benefits possible? Friends... Add benefits? Told him my true feelings and now it's truly awkward Should I tell my friend that I'm attracted to him? Wants to be more than friends, but how? Friends to partners possible?
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	Miscellaneous
	Sober — and looking for a date who understands Nosy neighbors are ruining our romance! Sick and tired of rejection Lonely boy from Hong Kong Relationship with a dying person? "True love" — could it be true? How to tell someone, 'You smell' Am I a dork for not being a party animal? Longing for love poems Herpes from a personal ad? Wants to stop bailing on relationships A variety of partners? Right time for sex Average number of sex partners Old love stepped back in Calling out ex's name in bed First date in Morningside Heights? Black Greek life at Columbia
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