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Sexuality
Genital wonderings
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Sexual questions
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Kissing
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Masturbation
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Orgasms
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Sexual secretions
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Tools and toys
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Fetishes and philias
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Erotica and pornography
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Sexual permutations
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Miscellaneous
Genital wonderings
About Men
My penis threw me a curve
What's penis girth worth?
The male hot spot — Massaging the prostate
Twentysomething man considers circumcision: Is it safe?
Bigger penis promises: True claims or false advertising?
Big penis mistaken for erect one
Penis too large for pleasurable sex?
Boyfriend's balls move to their own beat
Penis size does matter!
Will losing weight lead to a larger penis?
Shoe size as predictor of penis length
Scent of an uncircumcised penis
Crook in penis puts crimp in sex life
You're so vein(y), penis
Frenulum function
Penis overuse
Penis Has Scar Tissue?
More about curved penis
Peyronie's disease
Scrotum sense
Testy testicle
Whom should I thank for my penis?
Tremendous testicles
What are testicles for?
Riding high testicle
Average size of penis?
Decrease penis size?
Increase penis size?
Large testicle: Is it Dangerous?
Right testicle riding up?
Adult male circumcision?
The small penis club
Curved penis
About women
Is it a problem if my vagina is purple?
Chapped (nether) lips!
'Surgical solution' for small clitoris?
Pain in the clitoris: Help moving from 'ouch' to 'ahhh'!
Are we in vulva territory?
So, what is the vulva?
Clitoris is swollen for days after sexual activity
How can I tighten my loose vagina?!?
Little pleasure, if any, from my clitoris What's wrong?
How deep is the average vagina, and does it elongate when something's in it?
Is my clitoris too big?
Mistaken female anatomy — clitoris or cervix?
Inside my vagina, should it feel smooth, or bumpy?
Are my labia ''normal''?
The purpose of the hymen
What should I do with her breasts?
Curious about her body What is my penis hitting?
Virgin is eager to use tampons, but worried about hymen
Women's Urine Exits From?
Clitoris — Where is it? Why doesn't it work?
Changes in vaginal scent
Clitoris swells?
Where does the penis go for intercourse?
Where is the clitoris?
Hymen stretching
Vaginal mucus or turned on?
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Sexual questions
About sex without “doing it” (outercourse)
Phone sex: Getting started
What is outercourse?
Dry sex orgasms
New heterosexual sex
About intercourse
First intercourse: Minimizing pain and maximizing pleasure
Possibilities for the penis: What else is there besides ''in and out''?
Trying to decide when to have first intercourse
What's the spoon position?
Conservative considers coitus
Sex Doggie-Style = Pain
Disappointing first time
Normal first intercourse reactions
What is the missionary position?
Intercourse everyday... Okay?
Partner doesn't like doggie position
New boyfriend, only missionary position
Coitus interruptus
First sex for two virgins?
Pregnant without intercourse?
About oral sex
Humming and coming
All about ''ball'' sucking
Oral sex speed limit?
Getting verbal about musty oral sex
Does a good washing before analingus remove bacteria?
Is blowing air into the vagina dangerous?
What to do with a mouth full of semen?
Oral sex with a condom -- Does it feel good to the recipient?
The best ejaculation early-warning system
Taste of semen
Oral Sex Etiquette
Oral Sex and Ice Cubes?
What's ''69''?
Wants to have oral sex
Muff diving
Girlfriend gags during oral sex
Cunnilingus and menstruation?
Need more information on cunnilingus
Oral sex trick — the jade flute?
Oral sex with menthol drop
Penis and braces don't mix?
New heterosexual sex
Oral sex in the 50's?
About anal sex
Risks of anal sex, other than STIs?
Lube for anal sex?
Help! Farts flow freely following anal sex!
The male hot spot — Massaging the prostate
Pain from anal sex, and how to prevent it
Hemorrhoids and anal sex - Okay?
Anal beads
Fingers in anus -- Safe?
Anal stimulation ain't just for gay men
Not all gay men have anal sex
Receiving anal sex: What does it mean?
Anal sex and waste products
About virginity
First intercourse: Minimizing pain and maximizing pleasure
Trying to decide when to have first intercourse
Male Virgin Wants to be Normal
Definition of virgin?
About abstinence
Where can I find information about abstinence?
Abstinent and horny
Abstinence is not the safest sex, or is it?
About sexual difficulties
Sex with someone who has spina bifida
Low sexual desire
Viagra's effects on women
Sexual sensation
Ejaculation without orgasm Is it possible?
Problems with A-C-L lead to problems with S-E-X
Virgin wonders, 'Will it
ever
be good for me'?
I've never ejaculated Do I have a serious problem, or what?
Intercourse no longer feels good - What's going on?
Intercourse discomfort from tilted uterus
Partner can't keep erection for intercourse; Doctors say there's no physical cause
Penis too large for pleasurable sex?
Sex regrets
The other half of sex and disabilities: Info for the partner without a disability
Sex therapy and insurance coverage
Viva Viagra
Partner pleasuring through delaying orgasm
Ginkgo biloba and physiological impotence?
Penis Pump?
Erection comes and goes
Prolonging arousal/Lasting longer
Boyfriend can't orgasm or ejaculate
Girlfriend fakes orgasm
Painful sex
More about premature ejaculation
Boyfriend takes a long time to ejaculate
Can't stay erect
Sore sex?
Premature ejaculation
Trouble with erections?
Can't get erect after ejaculating
Painful penetration?
Trouble with full erection?
Problematic erection and ejaculation?
How long does thrusting last?
Painful intercourse
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Kissing
Bracing up is hard to do: The truth about kissing with braces
French kissing with braces
Where can I kiss?
Can you get any diseases from kissing?
Kissing with eyes open
French kissing
Quick hickey fix?
Kissing with facial hair: A turn-on or aturn-off?
Kissing with "morning breath"
How to kiss
Asking to kiss goodnight
Boyfriend not kissy?
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Masturbation
Can masturbation or using a sex toy desensitize the clitoris? And would my partner prefer her sex toy over me?
Pumping pillow with penis for pleasure?
Don't dismiss masturbation myths!
Semen... or coconut oil?
Auto-erotic asphyxiation
Sex with stuffed animals — Ba-a-a-a-d for me?
Bed humping = Bad habit?
How do you spell relief without masturbating?
Can I get an STI from masturbating?
Masturbating stats: Are there gender differences and why?
Masturbating roommates
''Masturbator's elbow'': Does self-stimulation affect athletic performance?
Father and son talk masturbation
Dr. Do Diddle: Pre-med masturbation and productivity
Here cums the bride... but where's the groom? (Fiancee masturbates in ''secret'')
Beatless in Seattle: Masturbation stops when relationship begins
Morality of masturbation
Optimizing Solo-Sex
Enthusiastic masturbation causes swelling?
Masturbation inhibits growth?
Boy masturbates in women's clothes -- okay?
Masturbation fantasies?
Masturbation: It's still okay
Surprise! It's Masturbation!
Wants girlfriend to masturbate
Decades of masturbation enthusiasm
Dry hump on chair
Mutual Masturbation
Masturbation healthy?
Masturbates=sexually active?
No privacy to masturbate
Can masturbation cause gas?
Horny all the time?
Male doesn't masturbate, female 2x a day
Condoms for masturbation?
Long-term masturbation effects?
Okay to masturbate five or six times a day?
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Orgasms
Nipple orgasms Are they possible?
I'm a woman who cannot feel pleasurable sensations during intercourse
Ejaculation without orgasm Is it possible?
I orgasm, and then I can't breathe
Orgasms by masturbation vs. intercourse
Creams for a better orgasm Do they work for women?
I orgasm all the time - Help!
Clitoris is swollen for days after sexual activity
I have a new girlfriend, and now I can't ejaculate at all
Coming and fainting: Is it possible to pass out from an orgasm?
Orgasming while exercising
Ways for a woman to orgasm during intercourse
Endless endurance, but no climax
Partner is silent during sex
My lover never ejaculates
Just can't orgasm
Waiting time between ejaculations
Am I coming or going?: Distinguishing between orgasm and urination
Moaning during sex
Sex, orgasms, and headaches
Can a man tell if a woman orgasms?
Fixed number of male orgasms: Fact or fiction?
Too young to orgasm?
Orgasms, female ejaculation, and the G-spot, again
Partner pleasuring through delaying orgasm
Too Much Sex Leads to Desensitized Clitoris?
I'm NOT Faking Orgasm
To come or not to come?
Woman's first orgasm
Multiple orgasms Possible?
Unusual orgasmers?
Orgasms After Childbirth
No orgasm with intercourse (female)
What is pre-orgasmic?
Semen has to go somewhere
Prolonging arousal/Lasting longer
Boyfriend can't orgasm or ejaculate
Girlfriend fakes orgasm
No orgasms for girlfriend
Where does the penis go for intercourse?
Spontaneous orgasms
Am I having an orgasm?
Dry sex orgasms
Boyfriend takes a long time to ejaculate
No orgasms with intercourse (male)
Interval training for multiple orgasms
Can a man feel a woman's orgasm with his tongue?
Orgasms and endorphins
Difference between clitoral and vaginal orgasm
No stimulation from intercourse
No orgasm with partner
No orgasms with boyfriend
Orgasm and defecation?
Boyfriend has difficulty orgasming with condom
Regain erection after orgasm?
Easing orgasms for women
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Sexual secretions
Can guys urinate and come at the same time?
My boyfriend's semen is chunky — Is this normal?
Is this pre-cum, or something else? Is this normal?
Ejaculates during exams
Is it semen, or floor wax?
The stuff that women's sexual secretions are made of
Semen... or coconut oil?
Female ejaculate ('Ejilculate'): From where does it come?
Semen drips out after sex
What to do with a mouth full of semen?
Anal ejaculate?
Nutritional value in a serving of semen
Wet dreams every night
Do women have wet dreams, too?
The best ejaculation early-warning system
Taste of semen
Orgasms, female ejaculation, and the G-spot, again
Do diet and exercise affect the taste of semen?
To come or not to come?
Dry up my wet dreams!
No wet dreams
Semen has to go somewhere
Save own cum?
Produce more cum?
Semen changed consistency
Control pre-cum?
No pre-cum
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Tools and toys
Safety tips for male sex toys?
Dripping candle wax — playful or painful?
Can masturbation or using a sex toy desensitize the clitoris? And would my partner prefer her sex toy over me?
My penis: No match for a vibrator!
"Cock-stuffing"
Viagra's effects on women
Lube for anal sex?
What foods can be used safely for all forms of sex?
History of dildos
Considering cock rings
Creams for a better orgasm Do they work for women?
Jelly my vagina?
Anal beads
Squiggle pen as vibrator?
I want to buy a vibrator but...
Aphrodisiacs — Do they really make you randy?
Pheromones Can they really attract mates for sex?
Genital desensitizing lube
What is lube?
Cleaning cat 'o nine tails
Men using vibrators
New vibrator
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Fetishes and philias
"Scat" play — is eating feces safe?
Yearning to drink my urine — Safe?
Barefoot woody: A fashion fetish?
Sex with animals and STDs?
Bestiality
Curious about human milk
Foot fetish — normal?
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Erotica and pornography
Erotic videos with women in mind
Masturbation fantasies?
Dreams of dad
Personal ad fantasies
Erotica on the Internet
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Sexual permutations
Asexuality
"Scat" play — is eating feces safe?
What's the deal with drag?
Girlfriend wants birthday spanking
What's fisting?
Two couples + Four play = Okay?
Commercial party houses
Menage a Trois?
S/M role-playing
Tantric yoga
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Miscellaneous
Asexuality
Fantasizing in the wrong direction?
Viagra's effects on women
Fascinated with women's butts
Have arthritis? Get creative for pleasurable sex
Hard but not horny: Can erections happen when you're not sexually aroused?
Is it weird to feel hornier than usual during my period?
Beach blanket boners
Ejaculates during exams
Golf course, not intercourse!
Am I a nymphomaniac - Is it possible to have too much sex?
During sex, you should: (a) grunt, (b) moan, or (c) talk?
How do I begin to talk with my children about sex?
College student sex stats: Am I the only one not doing it?
Sexuality education for youth in a special education class
Auto-erotic asphyxiation
Partner is silent during sex
Moaning during sex
Videos and other resources about sexuality for kids to watch at home
Straight man wants penis in mouth
What does ''putting out'' mean?
Sex regrets
''Muffs are us''?
Nude model wants to strike erections
Fixed on men who ''fix'' themselves
Why do I feel like I have to go to the bathroom when I have sex?
Sex = bad stress?
The other half of sex and disabilities: Info for the partner without a disability
Sex therapy and insurance coverage
Sex, orgasms, and headaches
What is a prude?
Erection detection
Definitions of Bases
Sexuality resource info
Will sex-ercise shed those extra pounds?
Genital odor
Sex and Disabilities
What is "frigidity"?
Frequent erections
Increased sex drive for women in their thirties?
Kegel technique
No sex or masturbation for a year
Prozac and male libido
Sex and spinal cord injuries
Man's sex drive and age
Eternally hard
Sex stops a runny nose?
G-spot
Lowered testosterone levels reduce sexual desire in women?
Reflex erections
Vaginal "farts"?
Definition of sex
Significant weight loss from recent surgery Okay to resume sexual activity?
Females — Favorite sexual position?
G-spot?
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